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| Name: | Loben in Laramie Offline | State: | Wyoming | Species: | | Gender: | Male | Age: | 33.7 | Relationship: | Single and Looking | Sexuality: | Bi-Sexual | Group Memberships: | Supporter
Wyoming Furs | Member ID: | 4958 | Status: | Offline | Last Active: | 10-08-2020 14:16 PM | Profile Views: | 12583 | Distance: | Miles | Skype: | Hidden from Guests | Kik: | Hidden from Guests | YIM: | Hidden from Guests | FurAffinity: | Hidden from Guests | Facebook: | Hidden from Guests |
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About Me: About me: I am a very active guy trying to accomplish way to much with my life when I don't have enough time to properly devote to each. I end up thinking and planning several things but never actually get them out of my head as I'm busy doing other things.
Currently I am 1/2 owner of a tabletop gaming shop that I started from scratch. Its doing rather well, no significant problems in over 4 years.
Personality is important to me. If I'm doing something I dislike with someone I enjoy, it ends up being a fun experience. However, the opposite is true as well. I try to be careful with the hobby's I pick up, each more for the people involved with them than the hobby itself as there are way to many I enjoy.
Currently I play board games of all sorts (I <3 worker placement games), Magic the Gathering, Warhammer/Warhammer 40k, Star Trek Attack Wing, League of Legends and I dable or know about quite a few other hobbies. I usually get an episode a day of a tv show or anime in, currently working through One Piece.
I have some weak points. With people I'm interested in, I tend to be emotionally blunt. I don't understand inferred things after a certain level of intimacy is reached, so until I learn your ways of communicating, I'm gonna miss a decent amount of stuff. I'm not as organized or as clean as I would like, part of that is from laziness, part from there always being something productive that I'd rather do. I can struggle with people on a different emotional level than myself, whether its from a condition or experience. For example, a previous girlfriend had clinical depression. It upset me that I couldn't make her happy when she was depressed, until someone pointed out that nothing could.
I like sexual activity, but its not everything in a relationship. I'd like to do quite a few things that arn't straight forward sex with a partner, but we can get into details about that later. I like to be the submissive person in the relationship. Looking for: partner: Someone who shares some common interests, and has no problem with the fact I can be busy at times. I tend to cling onto those I let close to me, by sending texts or talking to them when I can. I don't know for sure exactly what I want.
The more I figure myself out, the more I find people's needs in a perfect mate are kinda like their pick in favorite food. Everyone needs something different, and just because its not their favorite doesn't mean they didn't enjoy it. However, relationships are not like food, at the end of the day I can't have a billion people to love. So I will play favorites, even if it takes me a life time to figure out who that favorite is. This does mean I will end a relationship if I don't see it going all the way.
Mostly what I look for in people now a days is whether or not they are working on improving themselves. Doesn't matter in what, or how, just as long as they are actually doing it. Trying to become a better Christian? Good for you! Working your way through college? Hells yea! Working on becoming a professional gamer, going to the large tournaments? Awesome. Sitting around your house and only consuming products, not producing anything? Boooo. Lying to yourself about trying to accomplish things? bleh.
The last thing I need a partner to have is respect and understanding. Not just of me, but of those around us. Its alright to hate something and someone, but if you hate them without trying to understand their point of view, its disrespectful and stupid of you. I'll even accept the fact you've tried and failed to grasp their reasoning, but not trying is no excuse.
As a side note, I am capable of being polygamous. I feel that very few people are capable of pulling it off, and I think the chances of it succeeding in the long term are very low. But you never know until you try.
I tend to be on my computer/phone doing something most of the time, if something caught your eye give me a jingle. If things go well, I'll make it worth your time Happy
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